Talking in his sleep?

Watching are us, users of bluetooth mobile phone.

Is your husband "talking" in his sleep? Is he getting dark eye circles more often than not; even when he goes to sleep early? Note that "talking" could be snorts or noises (like kissing) that he makes while "sound asleep"; that in your years of sleeping with him, you have not heard of.

He may well have his hands on a two way radio / cellphone gadget designed for the secret service and law enforcement agencies but is now available in the market for just anyone who wish to afford it. It is known as the "Invisible Bluetooth Earpiece".

The wireless ear piece is so small that you can push it into your ears and no one will be able to see it. It comes with a metal necklace loop that can be worn around the neck and or hidden under pajamas or bedclothes or bolters. The device is powered by a 9 volt battery which is attached by Velcro to a component on the loop.

You may think that it is highly unlikely that your husband who is not tech savvy would know about it enough to use it. But then the slut he is with would most likely be years younger and possibly only manage to graduate from a university overseas using such a device.

Take a look at this video and you will have an idea how the connection can be made to a bluetooth mobile phone to cheat in exams or on you.



So now that we know that if the device is connected via a cell phone and the caller will be able to hear exactly what your cheating husband is hearing and saying, what should you do next if you suspect your hubby of using one? Start "talking" in your sleep too and tell that slut to drop dead in the worst dialect possible.

If your husband is really sound a sleep, he is not likely to comprehend what you are talking about should that wakes him up. Watch his level of grogginess to determine if you have made the wrong assumption.

If you are sure that your cheating partner is utilizing such a device, place a key on your night table and ensure that he/she noticed it. As the earpiece is magnetic, it can be easily removed by using a key. That should deter him/her from using it.

Things to note when a spouse cheats using this device:

1) tend to ensure that the partner is sound asleep before going to the toilet to activate the device.

2) will immediately stop "snoring" when the partner moves on the bed.

3) will turn facing the partner to ensure that he/she is asleep.

4) tend to buy 9 volt batteries even though there is only one gadget in the house using such a battery.

5) will "wake up" immediately (don't sound groggy) to enquire what is going on should partner "talks" in his/her sleep.

6) will most likely get up immediately to go to the toilet to remove the device before going back to sleep.

Things to note when the device is used during the day:

1) he/she often can't hear you when you call or talk to him.

2) he/she tend to go to corners of the house where you (or the CCTV) can't see him/her when there is a need to communicate or response to the other.

3) he/she tend to go to the public toilet immediately on arriving at a shopping mall to inform the cheating partner where he/she will be.

4) he/she tend to be "sleeping" while the family is watching TV.

5) he/she tend to go to the toilet more often than not at home.

6) he/she tend to find excuses to go outside the house, eg, to smoke, gardening, wash the car, etc.

7) he/she tend to yawn, cough, snort or make noises, eg, like he/she is removing food trapped between the teeth more often than not when it is not convenient to response to calls received.

8) he/she tend to turn down the volume of the radio while driving and tapping on interiors like the door when it is not convenient to response to calls received.

9) try watching him when he/she drives and he/she will touch his/her collar and neck area to ensure that the loop is not showing.

Please note that the above pointers are experiences shared. The purpose of sharing is to curtail illicit relationships from blossoming by making it difficult for straying spouses to cheat with whatever devices they can lay their hands on.

Also note that dark eye circles and the strange snoring sound that you hear may also be caused by sleep apnea. So, make sure that you have your facts right before pouncing on your sleeping partner, OK?