The “Muscle Builder”

Watching r us, the male “muscle builders”. Do you know that the supplements some of us take to promote muscle gain can mess up our hormone level and lead us to infidelity?



Men who are into body building tend to have more facial hair and a deeper voice. These are signs that our testosterone level is on the rise. Testosterone is a sex hormone and an increase in level can make us more aggressive. It builds up our confidence and enhances our libido.

What this means is that we are not afraid to take any women willing to look our way. With our toned physique, who is not looking? Some of us are even complaining that there is a drop in standard to the women we are willing to have sexual encounters with.

Just take a look at who Arnold Schwarzenegger has a child with outside his marriage and you will get the picture. Note that he was then married to Maria Shriver, whom Forbes considered "one of the most powerful women in the world".

So, ladies, if your men are into body building and you noticed an increased in erections and sex drive, satisfy your men or they will be seeking their pleasures elsewhere.

NOTE: Strength boosting programmethat includes high repetition resistance exercise, such as, pumping iron can also stimulates muscle-building hormones, such as, testosterone, growth hormone, and cortisol levels.

Been there, done that.

Watching r us, those who have been through it.

Do you know how it feels to love someone who is no longer around you?

This Mongolian boy, expressed this feeling very well in a Mongolian song, "Mother in the Dream", in this video.


An extramarital affair can break up a family. If you are involved in an affair, take a look at the video again and imagine that this is your child singing the song.

Should you be caught, your partner may leave you. Is this the kind of emotion you want to go through? Is this the kind of emotion you would like to watch your children go through?

Samsung Beam Projector Mobile Phone

Watching r us, the "Samsung Beam Projector Mobile Phone" users.

Do you know that your mate can cheat on you with it while you are sleeping soundly beside him / her?

The Samsung Beam is a 3G mobile phone which is equipped with projector. Just point the projector end of the phone to a surface and you will be able to view the image being displayed on the phone.

This video shows images been projected on a wall in a dark room.



You will see that there is no bright light beaming from the phone to the wall which makes using it, in the dead of night, inconspicuous. In the video, you can see the lighted up phone screen but there is a feature to turn it off when the projector is on.

How can one cheat on the spouse / partner with this gadget?

Now imagine if you are sleeping beside your spouse who has a habit (or suddenly develop a habit) of sleeping on more than one pillow or on a pillow and bolster stacked one on top of the other. If you are sleeping on the right hand side of the bed, he can place the "Samsung Beam" phone on the left hand side of his pillow / bolster. As you lie down sleeping beside him, you will not be able to see the phone or the light when it is turned on as it's view is hidden by his head on the raised pillow.

In order to view the image from the phone, he will raise his left knee up at an angle so that it is projected on his bare thigh. The closer the phone is to his thigh, the smaller and sharper the image will be. To make sure that you do no see the image; just in case you suddenly wake up, he cups his right hand on his thigh just where the image is.

In this kind of cheating, it is not about the partner / spouse not giving him / her enough attention or sex. It is about the excitement of being able to cheat on the other right under his / her nose.

What will cheating spouse do to ensure that his / her partner is sound a sleep? Victims whose partners / spouses have strange nocturnal behaviour have reported being pinched, knocked on the head, shaken, flicked on the face with the index and middle fingers...just to name a few.

If you can groggily recall your spouse doing that to you, he / she will reply that he is not aware of it. Some will be so concern that they will even suggest sleeping separately to avoid it happening again. Others change tactics. When the offenders go to sleep with their partners / spouses, they will keep talking to them till they stop responding to their questions or till they hear them snoring.

View this video if you would like to take a look at the phone and learn more about it.

The Misguided Woman

Watching r us the misguided women.

Hear her end of the story.

He invited everyone at the meeting out for lunch and I was one of them. He is the new contractor my company engaged to renovate a client’s office and I was the site supervisor. Whenever we have discussions about the site, he would suggest that we go to a restaurant nearby for drinks. As the project took a few months to complete, it became a routine and we picked to have our discussions in the mornings over breakfast or during our tea breaks.

I realised that I was looking forward to working at sites he handles. Come Saturdays, he would take us to new restaurants he discovered just to try out new dishes. Sometimes, it was just the two of us when the others are not keen to travel long distances just to have a meal. These were exciting moments for me as I enjoy the ride and the attention. There is always a cake waiting for me at the office on my birthdays and he remembers what I love to eat. How could anyone not fall for his charm?

When he offered to give my boyfriend and I a voucher for a free stay at a local hotel, I suggested that we use it ourselves. That was the beginning of our affair. I was very sure that he was in love with me. After all, he included me in a holiday trip overseas, his company organised for his staff and families.

It was during that holiday that I realised that he has a close knit family. Looking at them taking photographs together, it did not look like he has plans to leave his wife. I showed my displeasure and gave him a hard time at work when we returned from the trip.

I have been misguided and mistook his attention for love.

The Misguided

Watching r us, friends of the misguided. If a married man takes the trouble to befriend a woman, it is highly likely that the woman can benefit him in some manner.

For example, businessmen are willing to remember birthdays of their clients' accountants or staff whose decisions or actions can affect their business. They are willing to take them out for meals to impress them. They hope that in being” nice” to them they will be able to get their business transacted easily and get their payment on time. They forgot that they are dealing with human emotions. When they cultivate "friendship of benefits", it can go out of hand when the recipients see more into it than the supplier and client relationship.

This is a story of such a relationship.

The businessman became friendly with a staff of his client. After meetings they attended, he would invite those in attendance out for a meal. Initially, they eat at places close to the meeting venue. When he realised how helpful this staff can be in getting his problems resolved in his work, he began inviting her out for lunches whenever the opportunity arises. The woman enjoys the fact that he pays particular attention to her likes and dislikes and would choose to go to restaurants that she enjoys eating at.

Soon, they were going out of their way to discover new restaurants to eat at and try out new dishes together. They have discarded the “business associate” relationship and feel comfortable to consider sharing other things other than meals. They started confiding to each other about the problems they faced in their personal relationships. Their meetings are now no longer about food. He has found someone who is willing to have sex with him with “no strings attached”. So, he thought, since she is aware that he is a married man.

He thinks as he commits adultery with her, “If you don't eat this "fish", another cat will.”

Meanwhile, the other woman felt that if he is willing to go this far with her, his marriage must be failing. She just has to be patient. So, she puts her happiness with her current boyfriend on hold while she waits for the adulterer to say that he will leave his family for her. The affair carried on for a period of time and it became obvious to others who watched them. However, both parties do not want to end the illicit relationship because they are in the comfort zone. Why stop when no one is telling on them?

It became an addiction for the man because he enjoys the excitement of sex outside marriage. After all, he is getting it from a woman who is keen to hold on to him and will do whatever it takes to please him emotionally and physically. And of course, his business with his client is doing well with the inside information he is receiving from his mistress. So, why rock the boat?

Have you been misguided?

The Mobile Phone Users

Watching r us the mobile phone users.

Have you ever noticed that sometimes your spouse or partner seems to be repeating the same conversation to the “same” caller within a short space of time? If you have, then you ought to know about multi SIM cards issued for mobile phone users.

This service allows the subscriber to another SIM card with the same mobile phone number. The subscriber, as the principal holder, can authorise the service provider to allow the holder of the 2nd SIM card to use it to receive calls only or to make and receive calls.

So, don’t accept “free” SIM cards to “accept calls only” as you may be made, unknown to you, an accomplice to an ongoing affair. The giver will enter into his / her mobile phone address book your name but will also be receiving calls from another who holds the principal SIM card with the same number as yours.

See the picture?

Principal Owner of multi SIM card, mobile phone number 012-1234567, the adulterer / offender, can make and receive calls.

You, the innocent recipient of 2nd SIM card of mobile phone number 012-1234567 can receive calls only.

Unknown to the recipient of 2nd SIM card, the principal SIM card has been given to his / her lover who has been instructed to make calls only with phone number 012-1234567.

What are the tell tale signs that your spouse is cheating on you with this “multi SIM card” trick?

Pay attention to the way your spouse or partner answers his / her mobile phone. Do you notice that a particular caller calls him / her more often than usual or at odd hours, especially, when it is “supposedly” from a work related associate? If you hear him / her repeating the same thing to the “same” caller and question him / her about it, he / she will bravely hand you his / her mobile phone to allow you to redial the last call received to verify who the caller is.

Maxis do provide this service and charges only RM15.00 (fee noted as on date of writing) for every additional SIM card per month with a limit of 5 SIM cards to a number. To avoid being caught the offenders who use this service will not use the house address for billing purposes. They can also request their friends or staff to apply the additional SIM card and pay them for the service. Do a search online and you may also find someone who is willing to sell their multi SIM cards for a fee.